Maybe we can get together and show off to each other sometimes.
In an era where digital communication dominates social interactions, a subtle yet profound shift is emerging in how people connect and express themselves
In an era where digital communication dominates social interactions, a subtle yet profound shift is emerging in how people connect and express themselves. The suggestion—"Maybe we can get together and show off to each other sometimes"—might seem simple, but it touches on deep-seated human desires for validation, community, and creativity.
Across cities worldwide, groups of friends, colleagues, and even strangers are organizing casual meetups where individuals can celebrate each other’s talents, hobbies, and accomplishments. Whether it’s cooking, painting, coding, or collecting rare sneakers, these gatherings serve as a modern-day revival of the "show-and-tell" tradition, adapted for adults seeking authentic connection beyond curated social media personas.
Bluesight, a 33-year-old artist in Brooklyn, describes one such event: "I organized a ‘Skill Swap Meet’ where everyone brought something they’re proud of—my friend built a miniature robot, another taught everyone embroidery. It was about mutual bragging rights, but also learning and admiration." Such spaces challenge the often-competitive nature of online platforms by creating safe, supportive environments where showing off isn’t seen as arrogance but rather as an extension of passion and effort.
Sociologist Dr. Ivette Monteiro suggests, "This trend speaks to a backlash against performative social media. People crave in-person recognition—where claps are literal, not just likes and shares." This shift is reminiscent of historical art salons or talent nights, where artists and thinkers would gather to exchange ideas and celebrate individuality. Today, these gatherings take many forms: bartending competitions, board game marathons, or open mic nights for employees in corporate settings.
Notably, some cities are even integrating such activities into cultural programming. The mayor of Boston recently launched "Proud Pride," a series of community events encouraging locals to showcase unique skills, from breakdancing to coding. Organizers say these events foster a sense of belonging and pride, especially among marginalized groups who often face limited platforms.
However, critics warn against superficiality. "It risks reinforcing status hierarchies if not facilitated thoughtfully," says tech ethicist Jordan Turner. "The goal shouldn’t be to one-up each other but to inspire mutual growth."
As more organizations and individuals embrace these gatherings, the underlying question remains: Will this trend evolve into a lasting cultural movement, or is it just another fleeting reaction to our hyper-digital lives? Only time—and perhaps the success of the next big "show-off" event—will tell.